I understand woman have needs, but if you're with someone and they are in the Military and they leave, why cheat? Just get a toy and or pleasure yourself. I know them being gone is hard but you don't need to cheat.. I'm sorry I'm just so mad about those men and women are doing that for us, thinking about their partner while their partner is here cheating.. my friends brother just got back a couple of days ago, came home to find his WIFE was pregnant. She's 4 months.. he was gone for a year and 3 months.. that is just nasty.. I feel so bad for him.