Anyone else thinking of not getting one? What are your reasons? Or anyone who didn't have one with a first child? How did it feel?

I don't want to be numb everywhere and not be able to move around, and I feel like if women have been going through labor without epidurals for so long, I can do it. But oh the pain... I don't know that I have a high tolerance for it. I can't sit longer than 30 minutes for a tattoo. And even sex hurts me sometimes. Can't decide.