I met a guy on OKCupid a couple months back (November). We went on 3 dates and on the 3rd date, I told him I wasn't feeling it. His political views were too different from mine, his driving was reckless, and he also disclosed to me his number of sex partners and the number made me very uncomfortable. Anyway, he was heartbroken. He thought we were really great together. He texted me two days after we "broke it off" and said he felt bummed out. I said I was sorry he felt that way and he said "it's cool" and blocked me from snapchat. Anyway these days I've been feeling very uneasy with how things ended. He's still on OKC, and so am I. I know we can't date, as we aren't really compatible but I'd like to be his friend. Idk if I'm being selfish or not. I was thinking of reaching out to him and telling him that I want to be his friend, but 1. I don't know if I should and 2. What if he rejects my friendship? And 3. How do I ask for his friendship?