I've seen several post where people talk about the "other woman" or have been "the other woman" just curious at how many people have been. I, not knowing for a while, was the other woman. Me and my former manager talked about getting a place together, havin a family. But I always wondered why we had to be a secret. Then I realized he was married when his wife came to sit at my table (I was a waitress). It broke my heart. I wanted to end things with him. He met my mother, my child, my family. It carried on for maybe 2 more months, then I realized he wasn't leaving her. I was just a side chick to him. Just curious if any of you ladies have been in similar situations.