Hubby keeps going to his mommy whenever we fight

And is really annoying cause she've never liked me and this way she's never gonna!! And is not that I care so much for her love but if she doesn't like every time he goes to her for advice (more like to her to say he's right and I'm not) she's gonna talk bad things about me and I'm scared some of that stays in his mind :(

I love him and all I want is for him to try and work things out with me before going to mommy for comfort

Anyone else with this situation???