Ok first off i want all open honest opinions. Im a big girl i can handle it, but please be nice.

Me and my husband have been living with his dad for 3 years. We moved in with him when our baby was a month old. They own a buisness and lets just say my husband doesnt get the lucrative bonuses of working for him.

About a year and a half ago his step mother left his step dad and me and my husband agreed to stick around to help with my brother in law who is a special needs child. ( the step mother pretty much did everything for this child who is not hers, hence why she left him because all he thinks he should do is work)

So instead of going to work my husband has been taking his brother to doctors appointments, taking him to school ect...

Fast forward to now, my FIL has really been taking advantage of a bad situation and even on his days off we are home with his kid because hes out trying to be a 50+ year old Casanova...we have 2 year old who never gets to have fun outside of daycare because we are always home with his special needs brother. I just found out im 10 weeks pregnant.

My husband just talked me into quiting my job and finishing the last 6 weeks i need to become a Medical Office Assistant/lab associate. Ive really been in my feelings because i started the "dead in" job as he calls it to help get us away from his dad and his on going drama. Its only a short semester until i can take the exam but now for some reason i feel regretful.

Ive always had to have a job, which is why i haven't finished these last 6 weeks so i see his side but i just wanted to hear a non bias opinion. Thanks