I am so sick and tired of people telling me that because I'm only 22 and I'm TTC #1 I'm ruining my life. Even people with children are saying to me things like... Don't have a baby yet.... Get all the partying out your life and really live before saddling yourself with a baby....

Excuse me but I don't go out drinking and partying anyway so I am certainly not going to miss it.

I've been with my partner for 5 years. We live together and we both work. I think we are pretty stable in a relationship and financially stable. We both want this and know how much responsibility and hard work it is having a family.

Do not tell me I am too young to have a child. It's my life and this is all I've ever wanted. You might miss the parties and the alcohol but I certainly won't considering I don't even do it now and haven't 'Partied' since I was 19yo.

Sorry for the Rant but I just thinking it's appalling that some people who barely even know you think they have a right to tell you When to have a child...