My hubby will not buy anything for this baby until after the baby shower which mind you is up in the air right now depending on if his mom goes on a cruise or not and its mainly only his family going so it's not going to be something big with tons of gifts!! He won't even let me buy clothes! This is baby #4 I'm 31 weeks tomorrow and baby is measuring huge so in my head I want to be ready for anything, we have nothing! My friend mailed us a car seat so I have that!! I'm just tired of waiting to even know when the baby shower will be let alone buying stuff for this child!! If anything happened and he decided to come in the next couple weeks we'd have nothing. Baby shower was supposed to be March 26 and now it's a maybe that day or the weekend before! Seriously just mail us shit and F the shower!! It's nice of his mom to throw me a shower because my mom would never do something like that but don't have me get everything together and then be like oh wait I have a chance to go on a cruise so we might reschedule! Hubby should have looked at that as okay we can at least buy some stuff just not what's on the registry until after!!