If I can, does that mean I should?

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I have the ability to check my husbands text messages through our cell phone provider. We just got over a messy part of our marriage involving infedelity... Should I look? I can't help but want to know. I need to know. More to know that I'm being paranoid and not that he went back to this "other woman". If that's what you even want to call her. I'm not bitter, angry, jealous, or insecure. I am hurt though, and I want to be able to trust him. But I can't. Ugh I just don't know what to do. 😩

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When in doubt, check it out.

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If he has already been caught. Hell yeah. I would tell him I'm looking at the cell phone records.

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Tbh personally i think that the trust seems to be gone from your relationship and rightly so. However i think you should talk to your husband about your lack of trust if you both really want to make this work hopefully you can build up that trust again with your husband. However if all the trust is gone and he isnt willing to work on repairing it then i think you should move on you cant have a happy relationship without trust

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Personally I would bc I couldn't trust a cheater, but it's up to u

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Tbh it's not even worth the misery 💯 because if you see something you don't like of course your gonna be mag about it and more so hurt. I've done it before and when I tell u that was my first and last time 😩 sometimes its just not worth it know Matter how bad you wanna know !

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No. If you have accepted him back after infidelity then you have to trust him- if there is no trust there is no relationship. My partner and I know the passwords to all each others stuff but neither of us ever check anything. I know he will have to prove that he is trustworthy but you shouldn't take a sneaky look at his phone records. It will open the gateway to spying. You may check it once to see if there are any messages but if you find nothing you are going to keep wanting to check until you find something- and there is only so long you can secretly look at his messages before you accidentally let something slip n he finds out what you have been doing and that will create more distrust in the relationship

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I would definitely check it.

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Not saying yes or no.. But just know snooping can become very addictive and destructive.

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My BF and I hit a rough patch and I found out he cheated on me. We worked our way though it but trusting him again took time. I checked the numbers he texted and called once and a while and asked him about any of the one I didn't recognize. It wasn't easy, but we both really wanted to fix our issues. For us, it worked out for the best and we have only gotten stronger and closer. If you do check, be prepared that you may not see what you want.

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To be honest, I used to check my husband texts through our provider.....
They need to be held accountable somehow.

If I can, does that mean I should?

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