I've been with my boyfriend just about a year - he's respectful, caring, understanding, non-abusive, college educated with a well paying financial job, has a very "secure" attachment style, lovely family, etc. For me, it's a dream come true - on paper. For the past 6-9 months, I've become steadily less attracted to him on a sexually intimate level and have actually reached the point where the thought of sex (with anyone, not exclusive to him) is physically repulsive. He doesn't pester me for sex, but makes it known occasionally that he's "dying" because it's been a couple of weeks or so since the last time. Usually at that point, I'll get fairly drunk in order to be able to get through the deed (sober sex is out of the question - I experience no arousal /desire what-so-ever).