Taking advantage

Elizabeth
I'm all for equal relationships like why should the man have to provide all the time? But as much as I like making money I keep a house and my child and now my SO... 
Whenever he gets his money he always buys things for himself then gives me money towards the house (it's not a lot hardly covers food shopping every week) but with the rest of his money he spends it all on himself doesn't really give me a second though. Am I wrong for feeling not wanted or appreciated by his actions?