Every relationship that I've been in I always been the provider. I always had to make things happen and I always had to be the strong one and to hold everything down. I always had to make plans and decide where to go and what to do. It seemed like I was the "breadwinner". Don't get me wrong I don't mind doing that, but just once it'll be nice to meet someone that can hold their own and not need me to provide EVERYTHING !!! Hopefully one day I'll meet someone that's as independent as me.