After being with someone for a month knowing them for two and deciding we are truly happy and want a Child together are we wrong for trying so soon?

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So so silly.

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My gut tells me DON'T DO IT! but I've seen all these people on here talking about knowing their husband of 20 years for like 2 months before getting married (etc.) and that just goes to show, it's different for every person.

If you're both comfortable with it, then what the hell, why not? But I'd take into consideration: if it doesn't work out, you've got a long time of raising a child together. I split from my husband and I never dreamed he could be so hurtful and rude, and I'm stuck with him for another 14 years. ?

I don't mean to worst-case-scenario you, but it's something I'd think about now, having been there.

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Bonisle our votes don't mean nothing on this, people can say you're wrong people can say you're right they don't know what you feel inside and they don't know the history between you and your significant other. I say go for it if you both feel is right. Others may say don't but I am a true believer of always following your heart. If you guys feel like you are emotionallyand financially ready then it's really up to no one other than you

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I don't think wrong or right is the correct question. If you both agree that you're both ready, then that's your choice. We cannot say what's best for your life. Only you two can make that decision. If you both have worked out a plan re what if you break up what happens with the child and a bunch of other things, and you agree, go for it! I always do what I want and never care what people have to say bc they aren't me and they don't live in my shoes. Good luck!

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If you think you are truly ready, (ex. Have a way of providing for the entire family) then I say go for it!!! ?