Trust me, I don't need a speech about how bad that is but, my mom never made me go, she suggested it when I was 19 & moved in with my now husband but I didn't go. Now the older I get I am aware of how bad that could be, anyone else out there like me? I almost feel dumb I have never been to one before, I made my first appt today it's March 23rd I'll be 8w then & the secretary made me feel like an idiot for never going to a gyno before. 😞