Ok let's see I have obviously left some things out that is making this difficult. We text daily there are some things that make it so we can't physically talk face to face even though we see eachother daily. Jobs could be lost if it got out we were together. We both have children from previous relationships so getting together after work and on weekends is a trial but we make it happen. There are days though when I see him I just want to walk up and kiss him and that would be bad. Thank you to those of you who didn't assume the worst in people and Thought hey their could be a logical reason for this I didn't know how too add this to other post thanks for understanding and advice