I do appoligize for posting in the group but more people seem to be in this group and i feel i will get a better responce.

My son is 3 and moved from a private nursery to a school nursery last month, he loves it way more but a couple of weeks ago he came home with a large scratch across the back of his hand, which we were not told about and we dont know if the teachers knew we didnt give it much thought as kids are always getting scratches and bumps just being children. However today as we came out of nursery we noticed a large red bump on his eyebrow and he would not tell us what happened (he is quite shy and is just starting to talk in little bits at nursery since moving) eventually he told me he walked into a door although he did say it wasnt at nursery at first but then he told me it was a nursery and it really hurt a lot and he tried not to cry, he didnt tell the techer. Now i know teachers cant watch every child all of the time but surely they should notice if a child has a bunp on their head and tell their parents right? I dont understand because his old nursery had to right down every bump scratch and bruise they saw and make sure they told the parents and they noticed everything. Would you be concerned if it was your child as to why he didnt want to tell you (he usually would), why not one out of 4 teachers noticed the big bump or even know it happened. My sons very easy to read and if he was upset about something you would be able to tell just by looking at him, it makes me upset knowing he would have been upset and noone noticing.