I'm 28 and 17 weeks pregnant with my first. My husband is 44. He leads a very healthy lifestyle, but apparently fathers over 40 increases the risk of basically all bad stuff (miscarriage, chromosomal problems, autism). At least that is what I've read. Haven't seen my baby since 9 week ultrasound (and won't again until 20 week anatomy scan), heart rate was good at 14 weeks but of course I'm still anxious. Would love to connect to other moms around my age whose partner is over 40! Anyone else?