Ladies desperate for a neutral ear in me and my husbands talk

Jade
We have been together 10 years married for 5 in two weeks time we are going through a few issues and its seeming the more we talk the less we get bk to a good places he doesn't say anything anymore and I find myself repeating myself over and over again which is frustrating for both Would really want someone who is a outsider to either FaceTime whatsapp call or imo with us a play a neutral party and offer fresh suggestions to our marriage please