Husband has a bachelor party in Cabo when I'm going to be 34 weeks. Should he go?

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Trust your gut.  I say HELL NO but that's because my husband's friends are insane and they drink too much etc.  I would worry the entire time and just be mad that I was sitting at home pregnant as hell with a 2 year old while he was out partying.  Do we ever get to take a break like that?! No...and we're probably the ones who need it most! 😄

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The main reason I'm saying no is because it's in Cabo, and anything can happen. I think it would be different if it was like in your town or state or wherever you live lol. But if you feel uncomfortable with him going I would just explain to him and tell him why you're uncomfortable about it.

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I think it's too close to your due date. There's no telling when the baby will come for sure and it would suck if he were in Cabo when you go into labor.

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If you're not high risk, I don't see why not.  If you are, I think the call needs to be made just before the event.

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My husband had a "bachelor party" when I was 32 weeks pregnant with our first with his friends at our apartment so I had to go somewhere else to spend the night. 
(This was before we even set the date for our wedding mind you)
He very, very nearly cheated on me with a hooker (not a stripper a friggin hooker!) after I told him that was the ONE thing I was not okay with... His friend who planned it didn't listen and hired 2 hookers anyways... So I guess not entirely his fault. But still.

Did I mention I ended up having our son 9 days later? 😒😒

((We have a very loving relationship now but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't still a little bitter about that night, lol))

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If you don't want him to go he shouldn't go. I don't want my husband at those types of parties so he doesn't go.

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My fiancé left around that time my last pregnancy on a hunting trip about 6hours away for an extended weekend. I figured it was probably the last he'd get to go to for a little while, so I didn't have an issue with it. It should obviously be something you two discuss and both decide on though.

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My husband is visiting a friend in Florida when I'm about 34 weeks. It will be healthy for yo get guy time. He's also been working so hard doing all the stuff I can't do. It'll be a tough weekend but he'll be in such a better place mentally for when the little one comes. Let him go.

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My husband is going to Vegas for a week for a bachelor party when I'm 34 weeks too. I don't love the idea.. But as of now we are planning for him to go.

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Yea sure. My husband is going to Vegas for one night and I'll be 35 weeks. I won't be thrilled but whatever.

Husband has a bachelor party in Cabo when I'm going to be 34 weeks. Should he go?

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