what do you ladies think? need some help 🤔

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idk what it is with guys when you tell them your pregnant but it's like it changes EVERYTHING & the way they look at you is COMPLETELY different. The father of my child has became so disrespectful towards me & so distant ..  I try to stay as positive as I can be and I try not to chase him but it's tearing me apart day by day because I don't have that support from him. He wanted the baby & then he didn't and then he finally accepted it and stopped talking about it and things were good he started checking on me and then all of a sudden he decided he didn't want to go to an appointment with me that he was looking forward to going to and we haven't spoke in almost two weeks because at that point I told him off and told him he doesn't have to be here for me of the baby & all he could say was I care but you handle things differently and so will I but the baby will be taken care of .. like what does that mean? idk what to do its my 1st pregnancy and I have almost NO positive support so if anyone can give me some advice on this and what I should do because I don't wanna handle anything the way I shouldn't & push him away ..

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He will come around . dont stress yourself. Men get like this because its almost not real like getting cold feet. But take care of yourself and your baby right now.fall back off him he wanna act special right now let him but he will soon come to his senses.

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Listen to him. Hear his true concerns. That's all you can do. You cannot chase him, or stress yourself, only try to understand why he's being so emotional. But go on with life. Handle your business and be the mom knowing the baby needs your support even if you have none. Sometimes silence is the best solution. Not saying submit yourself but instead don't plant your energy anywhere that it won't grow

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Damn going though the same thing !!! I gave up it hurted me more to stay,, but I know i will be ok ... Got to take it one day at a time sweetie

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My grandmother told me "men don't become father's until they see their baby". I wish you well, be patient with him, not forceful. If he chooses not to, that's his loss.

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All that will change once the baby is born he will look at life completely different , rather you guys are together or not you have to be strong for the little one don't let him bring you down.

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