Waiting until marriage

So my bf and I have been together for almost a year. He wants to wait to have sex until marriage, which I understand. But lately all he talks about is how he wants to fuck me into the ground and all this other stuff. And we only do oral because of this. Well the last time we did, he wanted to go all the way. I told him no because he would regret it and be mad at himself. And now for the last week he has been mad at me. I have lost all sex drive and I don't know what to do anymore. Any advice ladies? Thank you!!!!