Feet planted in the ground? Or becoming a leaf in the wind?

If something so hard to get through, regardless of therapy, talking, and just plain trying and still didn't work.... Would you still stay? Or would you let go? Do you believe in sticking it through? Do you believe one mistake or one hardship is enough to realize you're done? How could you step through that portal with such confidence? Yes this is controversial because so many women tend to leave yet some sway to stay. I want to know why.