Temper with child!

Tori • Baby Kinlee due 12/17.
So my husband and I have been married for a year an together for 4 years we have a son who is a year and a half. My husband just gets so mad anymore and I'm always irritated. All we do is fight. We sleep in seporate beds and everything.  He gets so mad when our son will cry non stop but he is a baby! They are needy and cry it's just what they do!!! I hate how sarcastic he is and how every move I make I'm being judged. We never kiss or hold hands. Say I love you or goodnight. We're just so distant. All he does is play his video games while I take care of our son cook clean and work. We're both 20 and I feel like we just have rushed everything. I've been thinking about getting a divorce but I married him for a reason!  It means something. I just don't know what to do anymore. He says I need to talk with him but why would I when every time I do he just yells at me. Advice?