"Baby Daddy" Issues

Amber
I'm 30 weeks pregnant, my son's father has been in and out of my pregnancy since I first found out at 8 weeks. We are not together. In Ohio, since we are unmarried, I get full custody of the baby unless he takes me to court to get visitation. We were going to bypass that and try to work things out on our own. The baby isn't even born yet and we're already having issues. He won't tell me where he lives and he refuses to let me know who the baby will be around. Oh. And I have yet to meet his parents. Who he says I will never meet. So, what do I do? Keep the baby from him until he has the means to take me to court for visitation? Or fight with him?