Any advice?

Question

Hey guys, I need a little and by a little I mean a lot of advice..you guys know we girls have that boyfriend that we seem to never forget or get rid of..the so called "one", my ex and I lasted 4 years dating in high school until we graduated and started college he went to the navy and we just left it of
I got into a new relationship and basically fast forward I've been married for a year, he messaged me back in December asking to meet up and I said no, yesterday he messaged me again and wanted to talk to me and I haven't replied

I don't know if I should ask what he wants or just leave it, I know 4 years is hard to forget because we planned our lives but I'm married and now...I don't know what to do 
I'm having mixed feelings which I think is because I'm thinking too hard

Answer

Get closer to your husband. Leave your ex in the past.

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Probably best not to talk to him. It could cause problems.

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You are both remebering the best parts of the relationship. You don't want to go there again. However if your husband is comfortable with it you could invite him over for supper (when your husband is there). If he is interested in a friendship he will likely come. If he's looking for more he won't.

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I think maybe it'd be best if you don't meet up with him.

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