Would you make it work with a mistress?

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I see so many posts on the sex and relationships topic about cheating women wanting to make their married SO accept them and their baby.... If you were the wife, loved your husband AND wanted to move on... Would you accept the child and her? Would you invite the child over? School shopping? Possibly church on Sunday's?

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No he can just go have a family with her because he'd be getting the fuck out of my house lol

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Well, theres a difference between just being polite & being her BFF. But I'd be gone the moment I discovered the infidelity.

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The mistress isn't cheating, the husband is. So there are no cheating women in this scenario. Moving on, I wouldn't want to move on with someone that cheated on me, let alone got her pregnant. It's disgusting that he's having an affair to begin with, but sleeping in the raw?? That's new level. He could've given me anything and has already proven that he has a blatant disregard for me, my feelings, it the marriage. But, for the sake of your post, if I wanted to move on with my husband, yes I would accept the child. && I would make him care for his responsibility as a man and if he didn't, I'd think he was that much more of a foul human being which would once again result in me not being with him.

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Why would he need a mistress? Aren't I enough woman for him already? Lol

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No but then again my man would never do that to me. I'd leave his dumb ass.

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Cheating behind my back? No. However I'm not 100% monagamous so if my partner explained that he wanted something like this I'd be willing to try to work it out.

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Absolutely not. That shit would not fly with me. If it's something that works for another relationship, whatever. But, mine? Hell naw!

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Lol no. I'm also not selfish enough to cheat, bare the fruit of adultery and then try to shove that on my abused spouse either.

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ABSOLUTELY NOT! My man is MY man. No other woman has the right to touch him or talk to him in a romantic way. If he ever got another woman pregnant or even just hooked up with her he'd be gone in a second. Cheating means there's absolutely no respect from one or both partners in a relationship and there's no tolerance for that. I'd love to know why a woman would take her husband back with his mistresses child because then you're reminded of how badly he screwed up every single day. That's just messed yp

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First off, the only person cheating in this situation is the married husband, not the mistress he's sleeping with. That women is not in a relationship with you and does not owe you fidelty but your husband does. Anyways, I'd leave because Inrefuse to stay with someone who cheats on me. In this day and age you just can't risk it. I think people don't realize how common STDs are and I would hate to get that from my anyone, especially not my spouse.

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