I fake orgasms and then go "take a shower" to finish myself off. Anyone else do this? How can I stop faking orgasms?

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Never fake them! Your partner will never learn how to make you orgasm if you do that. As awkward as it may be, show or tell them what makes you O. It feels sooooo much better when an orgasm is caused by your loved one :)

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When he comes I pretend I do too...

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Exactly you have to open up and guide them to what feels good or masterbate in front of each other so he can see our stimulate your clit yourself while in the act.

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Be honest! 
I had this problem but I just told him that I wasn't being pleased sexually & he needed more fourplay & once I had my big O he could finish.. He listened very well & it makes him want it more when I make him wait & it doesn't matter how long he lasts because I'm already satisfied.

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Sounds like a bad thing to start.. I'd hate to be in a relationship like that for the rest of my life..I say start being honest so you can tell him what you like so he can start working for it to please you exactly how you need. It can be fun being open and honest and exploring what satisfies each other, that's the best part about a relationship. Don't fake anything

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Yes it's good to be honest and all that, but sometimes you just can't get there in time and you don't want to hurt your SOs feelings. As long as you're explaining what you like to him and you're enjoying the sex I don't see the problem with doing this occasionally when you can't orgasm with your SO.