Venting

Carol •
I have a good friend who is willing to donate his sperm, he just wants to run it by his girlfriend/bm of 2. I'm just having mixed emotions because he was the one to approach me saying he wanted to help my wife and I. 
Today, I told him I would be ovulating next week ( giving him a heads up). Next thing I know he tells me he's going to ask his bm how she feels about it. 
As a woman I understand because if I were her I'd be furious if I wasn't told. But like damn, you gave me false hopes. We were beyond excited thinking it would happen soon 😔
I'm disappointed because I don't have a great relationship with her so if she says no, I doubt he will end up donating. Ugh. I'm trying to stay positive.Â