Sex for the first time !!

So I had decided for the first time Sunday night and we had anal sex and he put it in too deep twice and it was very very painful so we stopped but eventually we did it again but he didn't go as deep. The next morning when I wiped there was blood. And it seems like my poop is mixed with blood and is now this red Orange color. Is this normal?? How long until I won't be sore anymore on my thighs ?