My husband doesn't let me use the car
I'm a stay at home wife. He expects me to clean the entire house, serve him food and coffee whenever he asks for it, do his laundry and dirty dishes, but when I tell him I'm going to use the car he tells me that no one is going to use it and to leave the car there. I'm home literally 24/7. I've been suffering from trichotillomania since I've been 8 years old and my anxieties have been worsening. I'm in college but in an online program, and before we got married he told me that I didn't have to work if I didn't want to and that I could focus in my studies until I graduated. I regret listening to him. Now I feel like I work for him. Everything I do here is for him, and once he's home from work it's all about him. I'm so tired of this. Today he is very mad at me and called me stupid because I haven't cleaned the house and I haven't folded the clean laundry. I honestly don't care anymore. I wanted to run to the store to buy a new laundry basket but he said that I couldn't use the car. I don't want to do anything for him anymore. Am I wrong for feeling like this?
***UPDATE*** I appreciate everyone's advice and input. Thank you very much. My husband decided to clean the house all by himself and I'm in the guest bedroom. Now that I feel calm, I feel like I overreacted and feel guilty for not cleaning. Moments ago I was so sure of myself that I wanted to leave, but now I feel like this situation is not that big of a deal for me to decide to leave him. Have any of you felt this way?
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