I came across this post on Facebook and am curious as to how many people really do fix their mans plate. I even read in the comments that this women fixes and serves her mans plate before her children. I love my husband but my kids will always be served their plates before him if I even get his plate. He is very capable of doing that himself.

This is still stupid just like the first time it was posted. My man can make his own stuff. I'm not going to be his slave in public. Actually, he tends to get me my stuff before his.

I don't think a woman should HAVE to do these things. As a woman I do things for my husband becaus I want to. I also feel like a man shouldn't feel embarrassed if his wife asks if he can fix her a plate. A relationship is even. I mean of course I'm mostly the one serving him, but my point is I don't think any man should make a woman feel like she's HAS TO, we do it simply because we love doing it for them just as they would gladly fix a broken faucet (I hope).

I do, I love serving him. Yeah yeah, I'm still a newlywed. 😄😄

When I cook I serve his plate, when he cooks he serves my plate... You take care of him, he will take care of you

I love serving my husband! Whether that's fixing his plate, taking off his boots, doing his laundry, cleaning out his truck, etc. I serve him because I love him and it brings me joy to do so. Yes he's a grown man, but it blesses him and he doesn't expect it, so it's not a chore for me. Treat your hubby a good ladies!

So a sign of respect, is because I have boobs and a vagina, is to serve him all because he has a penis. Yeah no. A penis doesn't inhibit his ability to do things for himself or me just like my vagina doesn't give me powers to serve him. It's called equality and dual respect where each can do for each other.

This whole thread is so American I can almost taste the apple pie and freedom.

I always fix my man's plate/drink. Not if we're at a buffet, but even sometimes at family dinners. I was raised serve men first then the kids and then the women who cooked eat, and that's how I plan to do it with my family as well. It's just an easy way to show you honor & respect him! It has nothing to do with how capable he is, and he never expects it, but I guarantee he appreciates it!

Actually my husband makes my plate at family parties :) how about you do what you want and stop judging other people

Sometimes I serve, sometimes we all serve ourselves, cuz not one of them has broke legs or arms last time I checked, and when the kids were really little whoever happened to be closest to the dishes served the kids. Why is it such a big deal? If your man is gonna get butthurt over not being served his dinner, he doesn't seem like much of a man.....

Anyone make their mans plate all the time and in public?