3 days late and high soft open cervix

Dani
no cramps witch is not normal for me i always crsmp before and during af , all im having is backaches. heavy cm. but no blood at all, not even a spot when i whipe. ive been 1 day early before but never late. im really wanting to test but been trying for over 1 year and i dont wanna do it just yet. :( anyone else having this ??