Please help, me an my boyfriend are trying to concieve before he leaves for the navy and he leaves in three months. We are planning on doing a civil ceremony as well to get married before he leaves. We've only been trying for 3 months, I was on the pill for 4 years then implanon for 2.5. I'm worried that might have something to do with it, but I just need some encouragement right now. I'm scared I am letting him down and its a lot of pressure. I've been really sad lately and cry a lot an he says it's okay but I just want it so bad an I have no one to talk to about it.