Stressed out bout insurance

Annelise • 24. Married. I have a 2 year old and 1 year old sons.
So I applied for Maine state insurance in September after my confirmation appointment. I still haven't heard from them. I called at the beginning of October an they said that my application was being processed an that they have 45 days to schedule an appointment. Well what they hell, now I call an I can never talk to someone directly they just foward me to a voicemail an never call me back. Now I'm getting my doctor bills an I can't pay them. They said once I'm approved that the state will pay all bills dating 3months prior to applying. I'm so stressed cause I have another appointment coming up an still no insurance. What if they say they won't see me until I get insurance. At this rate I won't have my insurance until December :/ I don't know what to do. Anyone else having these issues whether you live in Maine or somewhere else?? I wish I was still living in NH because they wouldn't have made me wait so long