Should i be mad or let it go??

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Today is my 3 year wedding anniversaryy... Im the usually one to wish him first .. This time i waited to see if he would say it or do something NOTHING has happend its now 10.50pm the day is almost gone should i bring it up or let it go :/ jus a chocolate or even saying it will be good enough :( idk

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I would definitely bring it up. I'd be upset honestly!

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Communicate. Say I know I usually say it first but any reason why you didn't say anything? Be honest with him

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We're exactly the opposite. He remembers; I forget.

Coming from someone who has to be reminded, we don't do it on purpose.

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You call him out on that shit! Well I guess it depends if you're married. If you're married he's in the dog house that bastard.

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You can remind him but don't make a big deal about it. Most (not all) men don't even remember dates/anniversaries. Maybe next time hint little reminders to him. I also agree with one of the other commentors...maybe there was a reason he didn't mention/say anything (stressful day or something)

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so he forgot. it happens! if he is forgetful otherwise, then think of a way to remind him next time. it's not so terrible, not a reason for fight.

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Id be furious!

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How can you get mad when you haven't said it either? You have to set clear expectations.  Want him to remember something? Remind him.  Some people are bad with dates, or just forgetful.  His actions as a husband overall should matter more than saying a "happy anniversary".

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Definitely say something.

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Oh no.  Dog house big time.  My dad refuses to celebrate anniversaries or birthdays and my parents always scream every year.  It's so frustrating~

Should i be mad or let it go??

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