Fathers.

Why is it that women hardly ever respect the fathers views? Why is it that it's seen as her baby and not their baby? Every single decision needed to be made when it comes to our daughter has been a joint decsion. If the father is actively involved , why do us a women always say that it's her baby her choice. Shouldn't it be their baby their choice? I feel for men now a days. Women are so selfish with their children.