Why is it some women/men are rarely in the mood for sex?

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Sex is an essential part of a marriage creating bonding. Unless both people agree to have it less than it is ok. The problem is one wants it and the other doesn't this can cause an imbalance in a relationship. What happen to compromise?

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Compromise? How about no?
If i dont want sex, then he isnt getting sex, end of.

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I am never in the mood because of hormonal imbalances, I can't help it. This has caused me to gain almost 50lbs since we got married, so my self-esteem is at its lowest. I get up at 4am for work everyday so I am usually already in bed by the time my husband gets home, so we really only spend time together on the weekends. And now I am pregnant and have extreme morning sickness, so sex is the very last thing on my mind. So, there are lots of reasons unfortuntely.

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I sorry my sex drive ofdends you. I have little e to no sex drive. I'm constantly tired my husband comes home late from work. He also knows not to force him on me. I think we have a healthy relationship and it not for  you to judge.

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I'm rarely in the mood because 1. I take antidepressants than kill my sex drive. If I stop taking them I get horny, but also depressed and angry. 2. By the time we have alone time I'm EXHAUSTED. I rarely make it to 9pm! 3. We have 3 kids and live in a small, echoing house. 4. My medical problems (hernia, bad back, etc) When we do get down, we HAVE to turn our tv way up, lol. We have sex a couple times a month lately.Yeah, I wish I wasn't so tired and we were getting down more BUT we are both 37 and feel like slowing down is somewhat of a natural progression in our marriage. 4 years ago we were at it more than once a day!!!!

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I definitely want it more then my so however sex is not the only way we bond and share intimacy we do it in other ways. Sure id love more sex but when we do it its amazing and we are both happy

Why is it some women/men are rarely in the mood for sex?

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