I am currently 35 and my husband and I are TTC.  I am on my second marriage and my first husband "changed his mind" about wanting kids right when we were planning on having them (when I was 28/29).  Now I'm three years married to my current husband and we have been TTC since June, but he wants nothing to do with fertility docs, says only if it happens naturally (meaning no docs), and has to put in digs occasionally about kids - something on TV happens and he says "and you want kids, why" - we have a friend who is always complaining about her daughter and that is his response, also.  He knows that kids were a non-negotiable for me - but, I don't know what to do anymore.