Baby shower thoughts..

My husband's grandma wants to throw our shower, which is super sweet of her! But I'm having trouble getting over the dissappiontment and nerves as well. She is super unorganized and does every thing last minute. And I'm kind of terrified it will end up a mess. Plus, I've loved the idea of "ready to pop" for a theme for years now and she wants to do "baby girl" for the theme so it will be ALL pink. I hate pink. I'm not doing any pink for our nursery at all because I don't like the color.

I don't know how or if I should tell her that because it seems so mean when she's doing something so nice for us.

I feel super ungrateful, even though I really am. ):