My mom is here to help us with after the baby. Which I love her for Ive been alone for the last 30 weeks thousands of miles away from my family and husband so it's nice to have someone else here.  The only thing is she keeps saying "my god your belly is so big" and she says its everytime I waddle away.  My mom is a petite women but with a very long torso and always carried in her back.  I am carrying all up front. I mean no joke I don't look pregnant from the back. And at first it was fine but now after a few days of her continuously saying it its starting to hurt my feelings and finally told her it hurt my feelings and she got mad at me for being too sensitive.  But it does hurt my feelings. I gained 16 pounds my entire pregnancy and honest I don't feel huge. In fact most people don't think I'm nearly big enough but my being Japanese I guess thinks otherwise.  I probably am being sensitive since I grew up with my mom not being afraid to call us fat--- Asian moms are brutal. lol