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Question

I've been wanting to visit Jasper, Alberta for a really long time now, cause it's such a beautiful and scenic place, and recently I got offered a job at one of their resorts. However, I live in a completely different part of Canada, and I have a boyfriend (of 8 months) and he's in school right now, so he can't exactly leave with me. 
I really want this job, but I don't want to leave my boyfriend either, and I know a long distance relationship won't work for us. 
I just don't know what to do, I'm only 18, but this is such an awesome opportunity for me, and I'm having so much trouble trying to find a job here in my home town. 
Any of you have any advice? I feel really stuck right now 😭

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It's not like he couldn't come visit on weekends or holidays? Or vise versa on your days off ? You need to do what makes you happy and reach your dreams too. If he's at all serious he will work with you to find a way for you guys to be together and you and him both reach your goals.

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I'd go personally...at least try it? Life's too short, you're so young, don't have any regrets. If you get there and really hate it or miss him so much, you can always go back. It's exciting, I envy you! What is the job? 💜

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Always follow your dreams, because if someone loves you they will help you and stick with you no matter what.

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If he can't support you with your dreams, he is not the one anyway. Go follow your dreams! You don't want to live with wondering "what if"!😊

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I can tell you my sister went and worked in Jasper doing the same thing as this job offer you have Erica (and she was also 18!), she said it was the best experience she's ever had and has absolutely zero regrets about it. She is now super happily married with two amazing kids, and still talks about the awesome time she had working there almost 30 years ago! I think you should definitely seize the opportunity!!

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