Hurtfull words from own mother...

I would like to start with the fact that I am 15 weeks with a healthy baby now, bit we did suffer a loss in October just before conceiving our miracle baby. Anyways what I wanted to talk about was the fact that when I shared my loss with my mother who had known for almost two weeks that I was pregnant told me I should "get over it" because I "didn't really lose a BABY" since I was only a little over 7 weeks. This was extremely hurtful to me. We had been trying for a year at that point and I very much felt that I lost a child. Really I just need someone to tell me I'm not crazy to have felt that way....