So I have a problem and I need some other opinions on the topic. So I'm 18 years old and I'm not a virgin. But for the last 3 years, I've been telling my mom I am a virgin. The worst part is that I tell my mom everything and this is the only thing I've kept secret from her. I just don't know how to tell her I'm not and explain how I lost it at 15. I honestly and scared to tell her because I don't want to see her reaction. I need some help... how do you tell your mom you're not a virgin?