He doesn't want to marry due to cause he has 30k debt. Should i make this even a problem? Tbh i dont even see it as a big deal, i dont know what do you guys think? Money always seem to lower his self esteem. He says he wants to provide the best of everything for this family. I dont think it needs to be like that honestly. We're a couple who came from the rough of times, we were in darkness and we found eachother's light. We healed eachother, we tell eachother things that we never even share with our friends. He doesn't want to lose me but he also making money a problem. I can see his trying to improve his views about and change the way he thinks but every and now thn i guess when he reminds him of the debt we start all over again -.-