So I'm almost 18w along and I haven't found out the gender out yet, but I have a girl name already picked out, so I told my baby daddy, and he was like okay well then I pick the boy name, and at the time I agreed, and then I started telling my family and friends the names we have picked out... and they are jumping down by throat because my baby daddy hasn't been around since the end of January, so they think that since he isn't really involved that he shouldn't have a decision on anything.....especially because he doesn't even think the baby is his.... I don't know what to do.....I don't want to upset my family....but I don't want to upset him either....