Tdap shot

Island girl
So my doctor advised us to get the Tdap shot because whooping cough is making a come back. It is also advised that anyone who would spend time with the baby get the shot also. I told my mom, dad, sister, and aunt more than two months ago but none of them said anything. Yesterday I asked my mom if she got it and she said she is not getting it because she don't know what it will do. Apparently none of them get their shots even the flu. So I said, if you guys don't get your shot you can't see the baby. Now she is upset at me. I am not putting my child at risk so they could keep from getting a shot.