I'm married but my husband doesn't want to have anymore kids after his experience with his ex wife and their children. He refuses to have sex without a condom. What could I do without compromising the condom to have him ejaculate in me. Of course I tried talking with him but he won't budge. I did not have children during my first marriage because I put my career first. Now I'm over 40 and I can not get kids out of my heart and head. I get happy when I see moms with their baby's but then I get sad because it's not me teaching and growing with my child. I am open to thoughts on how to get pregnant.