I need you ladies opinion... I'm on the edge on just telling my SO that I don't want a baby shower. He doesn't really get along with my part of the family (its a long story), in my son's first birthday we envited everyone on both part of the families. I'm not sure if it's only Spanish families but in mines on family is on one side and the other family on the other. It's awkward, and a couple days later my mother was complaining to me about why I didn't envite more people of my family...it's freaking annoying.. so I asked my SO that I wanted to do my baby shower and he said he was planning on doing it for me but he wasn't going to envite my family. So that's my dilema.. that's why I'm up fet up with all this dilema. Wat do u ladies think