SINGLE MOM RANT

Now, to all of the people who like to say "If the father is involved in any capacity you are NOT a Single Mom."  Let me say A CHECK IS NOT A SUBSTITUTION FOR BEING PRESENT!!!! Coming around to visit 3-4 times a year is NOT coparenting!!!!!  Single Parenting is a FT job and many of us do it along with managing an actual full-time job! I dont get holidays off, sick days off, vacation days off...Mom is availavle and on duty 24/7!!! Sickness, field trips, parent conferences, homework duty, doctors appts...this Mom does it all so to the people who want to try to tell me I am not a Single Mom...GIRL BYE!!!