After you have a baby?

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Did it ruin or make your relationship stronger? I mean me and my boyfriend have a good relationship, it's just that I hear people talk about how having a baby can either make or break your relationship

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Hubby and I have been together for nine years this summer, and married six this August. We have tried for about six years to have a baby. When we found out we were expecting, it definitely brought us closer together. He always wanted to be by me always wanted to take care of me. I unfortunately lost the baby six weeks in, but I swear our relationship is even better then before. it's weird to say, but it strengthened us and brought out more love then I thought we could have for each other. I think if you are happy to begin with, and you have similar goals in life, it would strengthen 100%

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You have to work harder and nothing is the same as it was before.

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I say make because we weren't even together when our first daughter was born but when she was three months we got back together. Now she's almost one and I'm pregnant our second.

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Well if you already don't have a stable relationship, having a baby is not going to be the solution to your problems. Lol.

I think you have to make more effort in your marriage after a baby. Before baby you had all the time in the world to cuddle, talk, have sex, go out. And when the baby comes it can be easy to forget that your marriage is a priority too.

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Yeah just dont prep and overthink to much, its because u both get tired and things dont run as smooth at first but, after u get a svhdule, and the baby teaches you life dont go your way, u learn that lesson yall will be fine, just remember to listen and speak from the heart.

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I'm not gonna lie, it was a hard year (after baby was born), but we came out of it stronger than ever.

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It can do both if you let it certain parts you will need to put more effort into after baby comes some parts will naturally get stronger the key is communication

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We fought after our first. We fight a lot more after our second but we're a lot more understanding/forgiving of each other. Constant communication w your partner changes everything!

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My husband and I have been together 10years this August, our 1st turned 2 in November and #2 is on the way. 
Having a child defiantly put strain on our relationship. It's harder to go out together, expensive to get a sitter and less relaxing with a child. The only alone time we get is after she goes to sleep, which isn't that much longer before we go to sleep. 
I don't think it "makes" any relationship, I think it's hard for everyone and people who already work well together shine while those with problems fail. But it's definitely harder than not having a child

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My husband and I have a very strong , loving relationship but sometimes I worry if the stress of our son is going to cause us to grow apart a bit.

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